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FFS Guide to Tipping

So is it just me or does it seem like everyone around struggles with tipping? Whether or not to, how much to, if it’s even customary?

After going out for pedicures with a friend yesterday, we both did the “how much are you going to tip?” dance that awkwardly occurs in those situations. Not only do you not want to look cheap in front of your friends, but you also have a receptionist staring at you (and silently judging you) on whatever dollar amount you put down on that little credit card slip.

It got me thinking about how many times these awkward situations occur in life… At a bar, club or restaurant, of course. But there’s also cab rides, hair stylists, manicurists, make-up artists, eye brow waxings, doormen, valet parkers, pizza delivery, movers… even starbucks has a tip jar! 

So what’s customary to tip? What’s decent and what’s overly generous? I did some snooping around and found the following to be a good set of general guidelines to follow when dishing out a little extra to those who help make our lives a little less stressful and our days a little brighter:

First keep in mind that typically, gratuities should be (or are) calculated on a pre-tax basis. Using the total bill is great too if you’re looking to make things simple or give a little extra.

Second, we all know that tipping isn’t necessarily required, but that isn’t an excuse to not do it or to hold back on on it. Many people work hard and put forth the effort to make your experience with them a good one and most of the time they count on that gratuity to support themselves.

Third, use the info below when you’re a little uneasy on how to proceed:

Restaurants / Bars / Clubs / Nightlife

Wait service (sit down): 15-20% pre-tax

(unless your service was horrific or your server sneezed on your food – it’s a bit tacky to tip less than 15%)

Take Out: 0-10% if you feel like making the person’s day.

Delivery: 15% of your bill

Bartender: The standard $1 per drink or 15-20% of the tab

Restroom Attendant: $1-$3 depending on services

Valet: $2-$5 (This is YOUR CAR after all… not somewhere I’d recommend skimping).

Travel

Skycap: $2 first bag, $1 per additional bag

Doorman: $1-$2 for carrying luggage, $1-$2 for hailing cab

Bell hop: $2 first bag, $1 per additional bag

Concierge: $5 for tickets or reservations, $10 if hard to get; no need to tip for answering questions

Taxi: 10-15% plus an extra $1-$2 if helped with bags

Salon / Spa

Hair Dresser: 15-20%

Manicurist: 15-20%

Facial, waxing, massage: 15-20%

The above are just some general guidelines. Obviously, go with your gut and use your best judgment when in doubt. If your hair dresser performed a miracle and corrected a DIY color job gone wrong – feel free to give her a little extra to show your appreciation. If you got shoddy service and were taken on an extra 10 minute drive by the cabbie for a trip down the block, then it’s your prerogative on what if anything to leave.

No matter what though, definitely keep in mind that these people are working hard to make your day a little easier. Rewarding them on a job well done can only make both your and their days a little brighter.

Power Woman Proclamtion

“One of the things I learned the hard way was that it doesn’t pay to get discouraged. Keeping busy and making optimism a way of life can restore your faith in yourself.” – Lucille Ball

So 2 months in to 2010.. and I’m moving – AGAIN. I know I labeled 2010 as the year of “Making it Happen,” and trust me, I’m following it to the fullest. In fact, I’m pretty sure I’m making a bit too much happen this year.

Between relocating (again)  – this time back to Pasadena (never should have left in the first place), getting myself involved in a few too many extracurricular activities and trying to keep myself on the fast track to success for my career… I think I may be just a tad overwhelmed at this point. Seriously, my google calendar has never seen so many blue rectangles of blocked out time. (Thank GOD for my google calendar though – who knows where I’d be without that and my blackberry).

I wish I had some pearls of wisdom to impart at this point, but I don’t. I’ve had tons of ideas for posts over the past month and they’re all sitting very nicely in saved list on my berry, but unfortunately the blog has taken a back seat until I can get a handle on all the other chaos wrecking havoc in my life.

The big move is happening this weekend and hopefully I’ll be blogging again shortly thereafter. Until then, feel free to check out some of my other favorite blogs to get your fix:

http://carrieonthecheap.wordpress.com/

http://work-girl.blogspot.com/

http://www.wellheeledblog.com/

http://moneymaus.blogspot.com/

http://www.punchdebtintheface.com/

http://www.fabulouslybroke.com/

http://www.prettyandpoor.com/

Power Woman Proclamation

“God made man stronger but not necessarily more intelligent. He gave women intuition and femininity. And, used properly, that combination easily jumbles the brain of any man I’ve ever met.” – Farrah Fawcett

Power Woman Proclamation

“I won’t be happy till I’m as famous as God.” – Madonna

Power Woman Proclamation

“How many cares one loses when one decides not to be something but to be someone.” – Coco Chanel

Power Woman Proclamation

“Just don’t give up trying to do what you really want to do. Where there is love and inspiration, I don’t think you can go wrong.” – Ella Fitzgerald

Power Woman Proclamation

“Sometimes I wonder if men and women really suit each other. Perhaps they should live next door and just visit now and then.” - Katharine Hepburn

No Spend Day #1

So last Sunday was my first no spend day of 2010. I did my best to document throughout the day, and what follows is well, my thought process and account of the day:

First no spend day of 2010 underway…

Woke up today still feeling like I hadn’t gotten enough rest to recover from all the time I’d spent out this week. Stayed in bed as long as possible trying to will myself back to sleep.  This works for only so long when you’re a pet owner.  London (my terror of a mini-schnauzer mutt), decided to amuse himself by using the bed as a launching board to dive after his toys. Awesome. After about five rounds of this, I’m awake.

It’s about 2:30pm and so far the day has been a spend- free success! (Yeah, I get that it’s easier to refrain from spending any money if you hide under the covers as long as possible.  I’ll get to work on a different strategy next week.)

Today, I’ve accomplished the following:

  1. Slept in – because sleeping is one of the things I’m good at
  2. Made myself a yummy breakfast burrito consisting of a whole wheat tortilla, egg whites, cheese, salsa, sour cream… and a bit of veggie chili. Don’t judge. It was good.
  3. Played on itunes, facebook, twitter, email, etc.
  4. Laundry

At this point my record of the day stops, but I’m pretty sure the remainder consisted of more playing on the internet, actually getting some work done for the week ahead, and contemplating blog article ideas.  I read a bit of Eat, Pray, Love but still wasn’t able to finish. Great book, by the way.

I snacked throughout the day on the random items I had picked up on my trip to Pavilion’s over a week ago and totally lucked out when the roomie’s boyfriend showed up to make us both dinner! I donated a box of rice to the meal in effort to do my part.

I closed the night with one too many chocolate chip cookies and a couple glasses of apple cider.  I swear I’m not an 8 year old.  

So it looks like I officially made it through my first official no spend day. I get that some may look down on the whole hiding in doors for the day thing, but really – it was my first day. And it was a much needed day of catching up and relaxation. I’m sure I’ll have to venture out into the real world eventually for this to really start working out, but for now I’m completely content with making it through day 1.

To all my friends and followers who also made it through your first no spend day, congrats! I’m so happy to have you all here struggling…errr… working with me!

Emergency, Emergency!

This afternoon I came across an article I wrote a while back for our monthly newsletter at work on Emergency Kits.  I wrote it when the SoCal fires were blazing back in September and provided instructions as to how clients could put together an Emergency Kit of their own (for both personal and financial emergencies).  After looking it over today, I began to wonder what I’d put in my own Emergency Kit?

The article I wrote definitely applies to an older generation, but in thinking about it –some of the same advice would apply to me.  

First, lets talk the types of emergencies: Personal and Financial.

A personal emergency will have us searching for names and phone numbers of people to contact, car/renters/medical insurance coverage and policy #s, prescriptions and dosages, veterinarian info (for all the amazing pet owners like moi), etc.

A financial emergency could warrant a need for bank account information, credit card numbers, loans, a list of assets (cars, art, jewelry, homes) and more.  

Now , I know that personally, when I think “What would I take if disaster strikes?” my mind starts running through pictures, memory boxes, jewelry that’s been passed down through the family, my cute new jacket… and it’s only when I get to the bottom of the list that I scribble in “financial documents” as a last minute thought.

This is no bueno, right?

Financial documents, tax returns, bank statements should be among the first things you grab in case of an emergency. Yes, I know we are the internet generation and any information we need is just a mouse-click away, but seriously – when you’re under extreme amounts of stress and are in a high pressure situation, it would be so much easier just to have the information concise and at your fingertips.

So, how does one build their personal emergency kit?

Grab a binder (which will be purple, in my case), some page protectors (yes, those nerdy little things we’d turn our reports in back in high school), and start making copies of any important records and documents you feel you would need access to, inclusive of the following:

  • An up to date list of “In Case of Emergency” contacts along with current phone numbers and addresses
  • An up to date list of contact information for your health care provider, local hospital, pharmacies and any medication / prescription information
  • Car title and insurance policies
  • Bank and Credit Card statements
  • Renters insurance policy / Home owners policy (for you lucky homeowners)
  • Most recent tax returns
  • Personal financial statements
  • Website and Log In information for any accounts you may have online viewing only to
  • List of important account numbers for student loans, bills, credit cards
  • A detailed list of important items that are not in the binder with instructions as to where they are kept.

Obviously everyone’s Emergency Kit will be different based on individual situations, family circumstances and more. The above are just some of the obvious things to include, but I know in mine I’ll also throw in family photos, letters, and other little things that I’m certain will help bring a smile to my face should an unforeseen event occur. Yes, I wish I could fit my roommate’s flat screen TV in the kit, but I can’t… she has however mentioned that would be the first thing out of the house in the “What would you bring?” hypothetical.

Creating a personal and financial emergency kit isn’t the most exciting of things in personal finance, but it’ll definitely come in handy should disaster strike. Keep in mind that if you are planning on creating an Emergency Kit, be sure to keep it in an easily accessible location and definitely clue a roommate, friend or loved one (someone you trust) in to its whereabouts.

So, what would you put in your emergency kit??

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