So is it just me or does it seem like everyone around struggles with tipping? Whether or not to, how much to, if it’s even customary?
After going out for pedicures with a friend yesterday, we both did the “how much are you going to tip?” dance that awkwardly occurs in those situations. Not only do you not want to look cheap in front of your friends, but you also have a receptionist staring at you (and silently judging you) on whatever dollar amount you put down on that little credit card slip.
It got me thinking about how many times these awkward situations occur in life… At a bar, club or restaurant, of course. But there’s also cab rides, hair stylists, manicurists, make-up artists, eye brow waxings, doormen, valet parkers, pizza delivery, movers… even starbucks has a tip jar!
So what’s customary to tip? What’s decent and what’s overly generous? I did some snooping around and found the following to be a good set of general guidelines to follow when dishing out a little extra to those who help make our lives a little less stressful and our days a little brighter:
First keep in mind that typically, gratuities should be (or are) calculated on a pre-tax basis. Using the total bill is great too if you’re looking to make things simple or give a little extra.
Second, we all know that tipping isn’t necessarily required, but that isn’t an excuse to not do it or to hold back on on it. Many people work hard and put forth the effort to make your experience with them a good one and most of the time they count on that gratuity to support themselves.
Third, use the info below when you’re a little uneasy on how to proceed:
Restaurants / Bars / Clubs / Nightlife
Wait service (sit down): 15-20% pre-tax
(unless your service was horrific or your server sneezed on your food – it’s a bit tacky to tip less than 15%)
Take Out: 0-10% if you feel like making the person’s day.
Delivery: 15% of your bill
Bartender: The standard $1 per drink or 15-20% of the tab
Restroom Attendant: $1-$3 depending on services
Valet: $2-$5 (This is YOUR CAR after all… not somewhere I’d recommend skimping).
Travel
Skycap: $2 first bag, $1 per additional bag
Doorman: $1-$2 for carrying luggage, $1-$2 for hailing cab
Bell hop: $2 first bag, $1 per additional bag
Concierge: $5 for tickets or reservations, $10 if hard to get; no need to tip for answering questions
Taxi: 10-15% plus an extra $1-$2 if helped with bags
Salon / Spa
Hair Dresser: 15-20%
Manicurist: 15-20%
Facial, waxing, massage: 15-20%
The above are just some general guidelines. Obviously, go with your gut and use your best judgment when in doubt. If your hair dresser performed a miracle and corrected a DIY color job gone wrong – feel free to give her a little extra to show your appreciation. If you got shoddy service and were taken on an extra 10 minute drive by the cabbie for a trip down the block, then it’s your prerogative on what if anything to leave.
No matter what though, definitely keep in mind that these people are working hard to make your day a little easier. Rewarding them on a job well done can only make both your and their days a little brighter.





