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Power Woman Proclamation

“How many cares one loses when one decides not to be something but to be someone.” – Coco Chanel

Power Woman Proclamation

“Just don’t give up trying to do what you really want to do. Where there is love and inspiration, I don’t think you can go wrong.” – Ella Fitzgerald

Power Woman Proclamation

“Sometimes I wonder if men and women really suit each other. Perhaps they should live next door and just visit now and then.” - Katharine Hepburn

No Spend Day #1

So last Sunday was my first no spend day of 2010. I did my best to document throughout the day, and what follows is well, my thought process and account of the day:

First no spend day of 2010 underway…

Woke up today still feeling like I hadn’t gotten enough rest to recover from all the time I’d spent out this week. Stayed in bed as long as possible trying to will myself back to sleep.  This works for only so long when you’re a pet owner.  London (my terror of a mini-schnauzer mutt), decided to amuse himself by using the bed as a launching board to dive after his toys. Awesome. After about five rounds of this, I’m awake.

It’s about 2:30pm and so far the day has been a spend- free success! (Yeah, I get that it’s easier to refrain from spending any money if you hide under the covers as long as possible.  I’ll get to work on a different strategy next week.)

Today, I’ve accomplished the following:

  1. Slept in – because sleeping is one of the things I’m good at
  2. Made myself a yummy breakfast burrito consisting of a whole wheat tortilla, egg whites, cheese, salsa, sour cream… and a bit of veggie chili. Don’t judge. It was good.
  3. Played on itunes, facebook, twitter, email, etc.
  4. Laundry

At this point my record of the day stops, but I’m pretty sure the remainder consisted of more playing on the internet, actually getting some work done for the week ahead, and contemplating blog article ideas.  I read a bit of Eat, Pray, Love but still wasn’t able to finish. Great book, by the way.

I snacked throughout the day on the random items I had picked up on my trip to Pavilion’s over a week ago and totally lucked out when the roomie’s boyfriend showed up to make us both dinner! I donated a box of rice to the meal in effort to do my part.

I closed the night with one too many chocolate chip cookies and a couple glasses of apple cider.  I swear I’m not an 8 year old.  

So it looks like I officially made it through my first official no spend day. I get that some may look down on the whole hiding in doors for the day thing, but really – it was my first day. And it was a much needed day of catching up and relaxation. I’m sure I’ll have to venture out into the real world eventually for this to really start working out, but for now I’m completely content with making it through day 1.

To all my friends and followers who also made it through your first no spend day, congrats! I’m so happy to have you all here struggling…errr… working with me!

Emergency, Emergency!

This afternoon I came across an article I wrote a while back for our monthly newsletter at work on Emergency Kits.  I wrote it when the SoCal fires were blazing back in September and provided instructions as to how clients could put together an Emergency Kit of their own (for both personal and financial emergencies).  After looking it over today, I began to wonder what I’d put in my own Emergency Kit?

The article I wrote definitely applies to an older generation, but in thinking about it –some of the same advice would apply to me.  

First, lets talk the types of emergencies: Personal and Financial.

A personal emergency will have us searching for names and phone numbers of people to contact, car/renters/medical insurance coverage and policy #s, prescriptions and dosages, veterinarian info (for all the amazing pet owners like moi), etc.

A financial emergency could warrant a need for bank account information, credit card numbers, loans, a list of assets (cars, art, jewelry, homes) and more.  

Now , I know that personally, when I think “What would I take if disaster strikes?” my mind starts running through pictures, memory boxes, jewelry that’s been passed down through the family, my cute new jacket… and it’s only when I get to the bottom of the list that I scribble in “financial documents” as a last minute thought.

This is no bueno, right?

Financial documents, tax returns, bank statements should be among the first things you grab in case of an emergency. Yes, I know we are the internet generation and any information we need is just a mouse-click away, but seriously – when you’re under extreme amounts of stress and are in a high pressure situation, it would be so much easier just to have the information concise and at your fingertips.

So, how does one build their personal emergency kit?

Grab a binder (which will be purple, in my case), some page protectors (yes, those nerdy little things we’d turn our reports in back in high school), and start making copies of any important records and documents you feel you would need access to, inclusive of the following:

  • An up to date list of “In Case of Emergency” contacts along with current phone numbers and addresses
  • An up to date list of contact information for your health care provider, local hospital, pharmacies and any medication / prescription information
  • Car title and insurance policies
  • Bank and Credit Card statements
  • Renters insurance policy / Home owners policy (for you lucky homeowners)
  • Most recent tax returns
  • Personal financial statements
  • Website and Log In information for any accounts you may have online viewing only to
  • List of important account numbers for student loans, bills, credit cards
  • A detailed list of important items that are not in the binder with instructions as to where they are kept.

Obviously everyone’s Emergency Kit will be different based on individual situations, family circumstances and more. The above are just some of the obvious things to include, but I know in mine I’ll also throw in family photos, letters, and other little things that I’m certain will help bring a smile to my face should an unforeseen event occur. Yes, I wish I could fit my roommate’s flat screen TV in the kit, but I can’t… she has however mentioned that would be the first thing out of the house in the “What would you bring?” hypothetical.

Creating a personal and financial emergency kit isn’t the most exciting of things in personal finance, but it’ll definitely come in handy should disaster strike. Keep in mind that if you are planning on creating an Emergency Kit, be sure to keep it in an easily accessible location and definitely clue a roommate, friend or loved one (someone you trust) in to its whereabouts.

So, what would you put in your emergency kit??

Power Woman Proclamation

“The truth will set you free. But first, it will piss you off.” ~ Gloria Steinem

Power Woman Proclamation

Normally I only do these on Wednesdays, but well… I felt like adding another one this week.

I don’t want to be alone, I want to be left alone.” -  Audrey Hepburn

No Spend Days.

Let me just start out by saying that the fact that I’m scared of these is probably not a good thing. A whole day spent conscientiously trying not to pull out any cash or plastic for coffee? To fill up on gas? What if I forget lunch? Or want to go out for a drink after work? It just sounds so…. Limiting. Restrictive, if I may. And being the Gemini that I am – I hate restrictions. Rules. Things dictating how I should live my life. Yuck.

Now don’t get me wrong. I’m not some crazy, out of control spendaholic… I just like to have the freedom to do what I want (when I want) with my money. Lately though, I’ll have to admit things have gotten a bit out of control. The holidays and last 2 months of 2009 had meeting dining out, happy hour hopping, and end of the year blow out partying all about town with friends and associates. My bank account definitely took a hit closing out ’09 and I’m convinced it’s finally time to make some slight changes to my lifestyle / spending pattern in order to reign in control of my finances.

So, no spend days… we meet alas. Being the (semi) nerdy PF blogger that I am, I’ve known about this trendy topic for a while now. People setting challenges / goals for themselves of how many days a week/month to not spend any $$, tracking their success online (as part of holding one’s self accountable), and putting it out there for the world to see in hopes of inspiring others to follow suit. For a while I thought this was crazy. Who needs to limit themselves that much where they have to label a specific day a “no spend day?” I have plenty of days (okay, not plenty – but enough) where I don’t spend any money, but I don’t consider it a success of sorts… or at least I didn’t, until now. After thinking these people were a bit crazy, I moved onto interest… where I silently became aware of the days when I hadn’t spent any funds and would give myself a little pat on the back. And after interest came my last 2 month spending spree and the fact that hey – this all makes sense. 

So here I am, jumping on the “No Spend Days” band wagon… except I’m really at a loss of where to start. Being a numbers girl, I automatically want to calculate a reasonable percentage of the month to allocate to not spending. Calculator in hand, I’ve worked out some numbers (okay, cross out the “semi” from the nerdy comment above). Again though, I have no clue what’s reasonable. So after thinking about it, I realized that this is for me and my individual situation, I have to do what I think would work in my life. So, I’ve decided to start with a loose leash. One day a week will be labeled a “No Spend Day.” Yes, I’m starting small in the minds of some, but the fact that I’m starting is already a success to me. I’m excited because I know it’s completely doable and that I’ll hold myself to it after posting about it here. Not sure how I’m going to track it… maybe blog about the no spend days?? … I can see it now… “Went to work. Made coffee. Ate packed lunch. Came home. Made mac n cheese. Watched TV. Bed.”.. Riveting stuff, I tell you. (Just kidding, it really will be much more exciting). I’m actually planning on dragging my roommate into this with me for support. (She just doesn’t know it yet). Our group can have tons of fun not spending any money, so I’m anxious to see what type of mischief we can get ourselves into while taking this challenge on.

Wish me luck! First no spend day to come next week!

Side note: Feel free to join in and give yourself a few no spend days too! Starting small (like me) is totally appropriate! Just try not to go on a shopping spree to celebrate your successes. (This may undo all your hard work).

Alright, ladies and gents – next up to add to the New Year’s resolutions list? Absolutely do not go grocery shopping whilst starving. Duh, anyone knows this, right? Yeah, well this little lady decided to venture out over the weekend anyways thinking I could overcome the temptations. What did I come home with?…

Fig newtons, wheat thins, imitation crab sticks (yeah, I eat random things), cocktail sauce, vegetarian beans, a slew of fruit, egg whites, soy milk… in short – a hodge podge of items to snack on and which can contribute to a meal, but essentially – nothing solid enough to actually create a meal around. Lame, I know. I’ve been living off of couscous and veggies this week and conscientiously trying to ensure I get enough protein / fiber from snacking on oatmeal and almonds, etc.

Really though, if I’m going to follow through on this whole learning to cook in the new year thing, I should definitely start thinking about planning my meals for the week before going to the store. I mean, how much can one learn from constantly reading the back of a macaroni and cheese box? Don’t get me wrong… I make a mean tuna/broccoli/velveta mac n cheese casserole… but the whole wham, bam, done in 15 minutes things is never going to turn me into Emeril!

So,  how does one become a financially savvy Betty Crocker? Start planning, of course! (Really, that’s what I do best. Plan… and then have things not work out… but hey, at least I have/had a plan in the interim).

I meant to get to making my first official dish of the new year this week, but the week is halfway over and it doesn’t appear to be happening… so, looks like I’ll be making this next week.

I’ve spent hours upon hours drooling over this site and all the amazing, yummy, goodness (aka fatness) throughout it and am absolutely convinced that I must make the chocolate and whiskey beer cupcakes. I’ve already taken a few stabs at these and I believe my friend labeled them “chocolate crack.” My roommate made me make a whole new batch the day after I first tried them out. Literally – if food can change your life, the food on smittenkitchen.com will absolutely do the trick!

Soo… in closing, take it from me: Don’t grocery shop on an empty tummy! … and if you must, make a list before you head out! It’ll help curb your spending and ensure you actually have food to contribute to meal prep throughout the week.

Power Woman Proclamation

“I would rather regret the things that I have done than the things that I have not.” – Lucille Ball

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